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Today wrapped up, thankfully, the christmas party weekend at ___ Country Club. The first night was all the adult members. This party rocked. We’re talking: huge ice sculpture raw bar, sushi bar, peking duck, prime rib, and a chocolate fountain. The chocolate fountain was awesome…. the lady brought it back to the kitchen and hooked it up after they were done outside, and the whole staff gathered round it, dipping strawberries and pineapple into the warm chocolatey goodness.

But, all good things must come to an end, and these past two days kinda summed that up. Here we had the children’s christmas party. We need to have it twice because there are so many damn kids (lots of Roman Catholic members…) So we set up a kid buffet, with like fries and mini hot dogs. And we prepare 20 pitchers of shirley temples and another 20 of chocolate milk, and set up unlimited self serve soda stations. Add this to the extensive cookie and cupcake bar, and you can imagine that we have many many kids on a wild sugar high. Then santa arrives via helicopter in front of the clubhouse! After santa arrives, the kids wait in line to visit with him, which takes about 2 hours from start to finish.

So, as you can imagine, though they were mostly well behaved, I’ve been around way too many kids for these past two days. Tonight I intend to relax with a new creation I’ve come across:

Blended: A few scoops of chocolate chip ice cream… some milk… a handfull of peanut M&M’s… Kahlua.

Reading that, it’s kinda a kiddie drink except for the Kahlua… so what can I say? Though we may not all run around screeching with baloon swords and reindeer hats anymore, we all still have a little cupcake on our faces.

Eeeh, my mood is the color of this website. I’m feeling rather stagnant now and I just can’t stand it. I enjoy the comforts of living at home, but I feel like I’m back in High School, and that’s not somewhere I want to be back at. At TC there were always some good folks around, but here I feel pretty solo. I have no idea how to meet new people especialy that I am living at home… sigh. I guess the real problem is that I have no gay friends here. Don’t get me wrong, I love my straight friends, but it is different. There are some things you just have to be to understand. I try talking to people online, but find it endless chatter that leads to nothing (if not quick hookups - which I don’t want.) Plus that’s no real fun. I’m thinking about going to a club this thursday, but I never seem to have a good time at them, and I’ve never really gone by myself. So even though I’m feeling pretty smart and that I look good (been working out hard) it’s like there is no way for me to show it off a little. I think I understand why people do drugs… but I won’t be going there, even if that makes things harder in the short term. Well, that’s it for my first glum entry.

Those of you who live in the Boston area may have heard the story on the news about a teacher striking and killing a student who was walking to school. Well, I don’t watch the local news, and since I have been out of town for a few days, haven’t been reading the paper either. It turns out that the teacher is someone I know. In fact, I had her for a class in middle school. I found out about this after receiving a bulk email from a former high school classmate, who I wasn’t particularly close to. She was upset because she thought that our local news station, WBZ (CBS) 4 had really demonized the teacher unfairly.

I remember clearly the circumstances of me having this teacher. After a few hard unsuccessful weeks in Spanish class, I decided to quit (unlike me, I know,) and instead take a general reading/writing class. So I entered this class late, which, in middle school, is perhaps the greatest mortification. But it all turned out well, and this teacher came to be one of my favorites. Not only was she fun, but she was engaged with her students and always caring. In sum, a first rate teacher.

However, as I’ve done more digging, it turns out there is more to the story. When this accident occurred a few days ago, this teacher was driving to a school in Canton. I wondered why she was no longer in ***ton. Anyway, it turns out that she was asked to leave at the end of last year because of allegations made by a former student of hers. Although it’s nearly impossible to get any details on this, it seems that she took this troubled kid under her wing for counseling. When all was said and done, he was supposedly suicidal and she supposedly had sent him sexually inappropriate emails.

This revelation was, of course, shocking. Although I don’t have the facts, my first guess is that this teacher wanted to help a particularly disturbed kid, he didn’t improve, and ended up blaming her. The parents got involved, the story changed, things were made up, the kid got attention, and the teacher was fired.

So, at this point, my former classmate is asking that we write to WBZ4 giving testimonials about this teacher. I am willing to help in any way, however, I must have some more information before I proceed. I do know that this teacher would never maliciously run over a kid, but I’d like to know a little more about the circumstances surrounding her departure from my middle school.

Regardless, though, this is a shame. First there is this questionable action at one school and she’s forced to leave, then this. This was a quality teacher who perhaps got too involved (non-sexually) with a student. I wonder if this event has caused other teachers at my school to be more wary of acting as counselors to their students, even though we are always told that we can confide in our teachers.

So I’m going to try to get some more information, and if I feel she was innocent and that this accident was just that, then I will certainly write and speak in her favor.

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